“Nirvicharita”---A Gradual Process—5, Contemplation----132-

“Nirvicharita”---A Gradual Process—5

On the contrary, if we get avoidance and harsh & hurting words from our companion then we become indulge in the chain of thoughts which feels very difficult to break even during the spell of meditation.

We try our level best to forget all the things and try to keep our attention into ‘The Lotus Feet’ but sometimes we feel helpless. The turbulent flow of thoughts engulfs our awareness and drags us towards pains and sorrows of the memory of negative events.

Actually, we could not be able to tolerate such type of reluctance and annoyance of our Loved One, so we get involve in finding our short-coming deeply up to such an extent that we feel guilty for everything.

And this guilt gives us disappointment and immense pain to our awareness that we fall into severe depression and become weak internally. We hardly could understand why we are hurting so much inside.

In our day to day life we keep very superficial and external approach in finding our companion like:---we use to see his/her Look, Skin Color, Figure, Style, Personality, Income, Family, Social Status and so many other things which is the sheer evaluation of our mind which causes serious problems in future in maintaining good relationship between the two.

Our mind always keeps on evaluating the existing data of information which lies in the memory of our mind and gives suggestions and options to our awareness. And by mistake we always consider them into our consciousness as profit & Loss basis and reach to a wrong decision.

If we take any decision only on the basis of hearing, seeing and understanding with our mind then it would be 100 chances to face trouble in near future. Generally our intelligent mind controls these sensory when and until our Heart opens through Self Realization.

So, more than 95% couples suffer incompatibility in their relations because they have made their relations with the help of the calculation and evaluation of their mind only. They usually drag their relations, cursing their fate and karmas and often they use to fight at every move of their life with each others.

Means, they hardly have a good rapport and understanding for each other. They always feel unsatisfied and try to maintain a space in their relations and try to enjoy their life separately. 

Unfortunately, when we lack such types of companion in our life then we always keep on thinking and thinking about the absence of such a person even in meditative state. Sometimes we might generate an imaginary figure of that person and start sharing & living everything with that image and feel comfortable which usually leads to a mythical world but interestingly our nervous system could get little relief. And this imagination produces more and more thoughts.

.....................................................Narayan

"Jai Shree Mata Ji"

...................................to be continued,

"The Spiritual Reality---An Animated Movie"

                                                                 "The Spiritual Reality" (Hindi)

                                                          "The Spiritual Reality" (English)


This animated video is very beautiful which reveals some truths of  Sahaj Yoga meditation, though this movie does not belong to Sahaj Yoga directly but we may enjoy the same feelings and experiences what we get during mediation. In the beginning, 'Shree Mata Ji' too, emphasised to keep our attention on respiration as 'Sri Buddha' taught to the whole world. 

“Nirvicharita”---A Gradual Process--4 Contemplation----131

“Nirvicharita”---A Gradual Process--4 

D) Thoughts of Compatible Companion:-- This relation has special peculiarity, it can cover all types of emotional needs within one relation e.i. being a ‘True Compatible Companion’. This type of companion ship we usually seek in our Life-Partner and we tend to share everything with him/her which is painful as well as joy giving for us.

This relation is so essential and important for almost every human being that it manifests as the shadow of our own being. If we have good companion then we always want to please him/her with so many ways which could make him/her happier.

We always keep on remembering his/her affectionate gesture, overwhelming company, soothing & sweet voice, humble approach, compassionate care, confident protection and so many comfort giving moments which assure us Pure Love and Sincere emotional security. That’s why, in meditative state too, we tend to think about several things of our Companion.

Actually, we all are Soul-Companions who have taken human form to get the experience of ‘His’ creation, which usually manifest in these worldly relations. We all need an outlet in another human form that can show due respect for our overflowing feelings & emotions and console us with great compassion & love at the time of achievements or adversities with great courage & patience.

A True Companion use to be so compatible for all types of our urges and requirements that our life Blooms like a Fragrant Flower and we feel that ‘God’ is moving along with us or we are living with ‘God’. Though, a very few have such types of Blessings out of thousands.

To have a perfect companion is the greatest blessing of ‘Almighty’. Such a Blissful couples are eligible to get a chance to achieve Salvation easily because they hardly have any worldly desire left with them. Because, to have the desire of an appropriate life-partner is the mother of all desires.

We have been taking birth again and again since ages in the search of our ‘True Companion’ with whom we could get solace and peace. All types of worldly desires we prefer to fulfill along with our companion only. We feel very happy if someone who is very close to our heart praises us and enjoy in our company.

 

If these couples get Self Realization then they work together very nicely for spreading the message of ‘Shree Mata Ji’ among human being. They usually become the ideal and counted the symbol of True Love and Compassion among Sahajis as well as unrealized souls.

In meditative state too, they use to enjoy the company of each other in Astral form as vibratory existence and they never miss the company  of their companion even if they are thousands mile away from each other Externally. The example to Sri Radha-Krishna can be given as the Best Compatible Companion of Dwapar-Yuga, though they are incarnations but their Human Form has been described by several Devotees."

..................................................Narayan

"Jai Shree Mata Ji"

...................................................to be continued,

"Nirvicharita"---A Gradual Process----3----Contemplation---130

“Nirvicharita”---A Gradual Process---3

B) External Needs:--The second priorities of our needs manifests in the form of the needs of Cloths, Houses, Vehicles and our profession. When we feel difficulty in attaining above said facilities which are essential for our form as Civilized Human Being or we feel little unsatisfied with all these things  then we have to go though the chain of thoughts which are concern with all these things.

In such state, we should keep our attention to our Central heart and feel the Energy at our Sahastrara and Central Heart at a time and ask ‘Mother’ to take care of all the above needs and make an affirmation, “Shree Mata ji’, we will live as you want us to live, all these things belongs to you only.” If we do so then we definitely be little away from such types of thoughts.

C) Emotional Needs:--The third priorities of Needs comes under the category of Human Emotions, When we open our eyes and slowly start to understand our surrounding then we all are taught about the relations like Father, Mother, brother, sister, spouse, friend and so……on.

Along with these relations we grow day by day and we feel Emotional Bonding among them. Basically emotions are the form of care & security which is capable to take all of us closer and closer to each other. So we become accustomed and live together or share together our experiences and feelings.

On the contrary if we ignore or overlook other’s demand of emotions then the other person might feel insecure and he/she retaliates negatively and show his/her annoyance and anger against our action. Because our caring emotions are giving him/her a security which is necessary for him/her emotional balance.

Sometimes we fight with each other and complain each other out of the need of emotional support, we generally blame our near and dear that they are not talking with us, they are taking care of some other persons (outsiders), who do not belong to us, who do not have any relation with us.

Sometimes we try to dominate our near and dear and show them the right of being their actual relative and fight with them if they try to become friendly with some outsider. Because we think that new person can take our place in their eyes and we would not be privileged priority in future. So we become quarrelsome with our Loved ones out of thinking of loosing emotional security.

So, most of the time when we sit for meditation we usually have to face the thoughts of our emotional security, sometimes we think that we are being loved by our Loved one or sometimes we think that we are being ignored or ditched by them. So, we have to go through some sort of internal conflict which produces more thoughts.

In such types of mental dispositions, first we should feel the flow of energy at our Sahastrara and then into our Central heart and ask ‘Mother’ to let us feel more Secure because, “Shree Maa’, you are the mother of all the mothers, you are the source of all types of Compassion and Love, so please ‘Maa’ let us feel your existence into our being.” So this process would let you feel more secure and comfortable emotionally.

 ...........................................................Narayan

"Jai Shree Mata Ji"

............................................................to be continued,

"Impulses"----(Contemplation)------129

"Impulses"

1) “We usually live with ‘Adi Shakti’ all the time but the problem is,  we often insulate our awareness with so many worldly priorities which cannot let us feel Her’ into our internal system’ when and until we drag our attention to Sahastrara and Central Heart.”

2) "She' whispers with every cell of our internal and external body every moment if we are ready to listen peacefully with full patience."

3) ‎"Though 'Peaks' are the part and parcel of mountains range still then it has importance because it is a pride for mountains so same with 'Realized Souls' among humans. "

4) "Blowing wind carry the fragrance as well as bad smell to let others know the situation of the place as 'Adi Shakti' let us know so many things of others by flowing through our internal system."

5) “Forgiving does not mean to let others dominate our self and let them repeat the same mistake to create problems for our self again and again but it is the beginning of maintaining  of an ideal distance among those who were close to us so that they might realize the value of our true love.”

6) “Our awareness is just like goggles and color of glass is our mind that’s why we vary in our awareness and see through our own goggles and understand the things through different colors which results different opinions, so there is no need to condemn others experience because it is obvious.  

So when and until the color of glass becomes white, we cannot see the original and natural light.  That’s why we must rely on spontaneity which sprouts from our Central Heart rather than our stored data of our mind."

6) “If we want to feel ‘Maa Adi Shakti’ all the time along with us then we have to do only one thing which is only and only  giving self realization to others by using our instrument every day either by meeting people or by using our attention. 

7) ‘Whenever we intend to give self realization to others then ‘She’ always comes at our Sahastrara and raises others Kundalini and expresses ‘Her’ happiness into our Central Heart in the form of different types of sensation like cooling, throbbing, palpitation, vibrating and pulling into our Central Heart.”

8) "Shree Maa" is the redeemer of every Soul who is imprisoned by our preconditioned mind and we all are the medium of its redemption."

‎9) "When we stand on Truth 'She' always stand with us with 'Her' platform of Love and Compassion."

‎10) "If we keep little distance with people who are around us then there would be no need to forgive them."

............................................................Narayan

"Jai Shree Mata Ji"

“Nirvicharita”---A Gradual Process---2---Contemplation---128

"Nirvicharita"-----A Gradual Process"---2

Actually in ‘Connected State’ such types of our actual needs are being presented automatically by our intelligent brain in the form of thoughts before ‘Almighty’ so that these needs could be either fulfilled or dissolved by ‘Him’.

Because, our brain is appointed by ‘Almighty’ as the Care Taker of ‘His’  ‘Best Creation like ‘Human Machinery, that’s why our brain sends the messages of the actual requirements of human body to ‘Him’ which manifest in the form of thoughts.

Even a 70 year old person might have such types of thoughts or fantasies so many things related to physical fulfillment because of suppressed and unfulfilled desires, this should not be counted as a Sin. Usually some of our Sahaj Companions become upset by thinking that some negativity is playing its game with them and dragging them towards downfall.

Such types of thoughts are some sort of release of our suppressed desires & emotions; they might appear in the forms of dreams too. 

Because, during the meditation, when Pure Energy comes through our Sahastrara and circulates into our whole subtle system then it dig out our ‘Buried’ Desires and Likings to make our Sub-Conscious clean then those desires take the form of thoughts and come on the surface of our mind, so do not worry and be sure that cleansing process going on.

But, we should not stick to these types of thoughts and let them pass through our consciousness as witness  but take them to our Central heart before ‘Maa Jagdamba’ as a list of requirement and leave that list to ‘Her’ and come back to our job of feeling the Flow of ‘Divine Energy at our Sahastrara and into our Central Heart.

Either ‘She’ would arrange to fulfill our Natural Needs or ‘She’ might convert those needs into power to attain higher goals. This is ‘Her’ discretion, but be sure ‘She’ would do the best for us." 

.........................................................................Narayan

"Jai Shree Mata Ji"

.......................................................to be continued,