“Nirvicharita”---A Gradual Process—5
On the contrary, if
we get avoidance and harsh & hurting words from our companion then we
become indulge in the chain of thoughts which feels very difficult to break
even during the spell of meditation.
We try our level best to forget all the things and try
to keep our attention into ‘The Lotus Feet’ but sometimes we feel helpless. The
turbulent flow of thoughts engulfs our awareness and drags us towards pains and
sorrows of the memory of negative events.
Actually, we could not be able to tolerate such type of
reluctance and annoyance of our Loved One, so we get involve in finding our
short-coming deeply up to such an extent that we feel guilty for everything.
And this guilt gives us disappointment and immense pain to
our awareness that we fall into severe depression and become weak internally. We
hardly could understand why we are hurting so much inside.
In our day to day life we keep very superficial and external
approach in finding our companion like:---we use to see his/her Look, Skin
Color, Figure, Style, Personality, Income, Family, Social Status and so many
other things which is the sheer evaluation of our mind which causes serious
problems in future in maintaining good relationship between the two.
Our mind always keeps on evaluating the existing data of
information which lies in the memory of our mind and gives suggestions and
options to our awareness. And by mistake we always consider them into our
consciousness as profit & Loss basis and reach to a wrong decision.
If we take any decision only on the basis of hearing,
seeing and understanding with our mind then it would be 100 chances to face
trouble in near future. Generally our intelligent mind controls these sensory
when and until our Heart opens through Self Realization.
So, more than 95% couples suffer incompatibility in their
relations because they have made their relations with the help of the
calculation and evaluation of their mind only. They usually drag their
relations, cursing their fate and karmas and often they use to fight at every
move of their life with each others.
Means, they hardly have a good rapport and understanding for
each other. They always feel unsatisfied and try to maintain a space in their
relations and try to enjoy their life separately.
Unfortunately, when we lack such types of companion in our
life then we always keep on thinking and thinking about the absence of such a
person even in meditative state. Sometimes we might generate an imaginary
figure of that person and start sharing & living everything with that image
and feel comfortable which usually leads to a mythical world but interestingly
our nervous system could get little relief. And this imagination produces more
and more thoughts.
.....................................................Narayan
"Jai Shree Mata Ji"
...................................to be continued,
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