“Nirvicharita”---A Gradual Process---3
B) External Needs:--The second priorities of our needs manifests in the form of the
needs of Cloths, Houses, Vehicles and our profession. When we feel difficulty
in attaining above said facilities which are essential for our form as
Civilized Human Being or we feel little unsatisfied with all these things
then we have to go though the chain of thoughts which are concern with
all these things.
In such state, we should keep our attention to our Central heart
and feel the Energy at our Sahastrara and Central Heart at a time and ask
‘Mother’ to take care of all the above needs and make an affirmation, “Shree
Mata ji’, we will live as you want us to live, all these things belongs to you
only.” If we do so then we definitely be little away from such types of
thoughts.
C) Emotional Needs:--The third priorities of Needs comes under the category of Human
Emotions, When we open our eyes and slowly start to understand our surrounding
then we all are taught about the relations like Father, Mother, brother,
sister, spouse, friend and so……on.
Along with these relations we grow day by day and we feel
Emotional Bonding among them. Basically emotions are the form of care &
security which is capable to take all of us closer and closer to each other. So
we become accustomed and live together or share together our experiences and
feelings.
On the contrary if we ignore or overlook other’s demand of emotions
then the other person might feel insecure and he/she retaliates negatively and
show his/her annoyance and anger against our action. Because our caring
emotions are giving him/her a security which is necessary for him/her emotional
balance.
Sometimes we fight with each other and complain each other out
of the need of emotional support, we generally blame our near and dear that
they are not talking with us, they are taking care of some other persons
(outsiders), who do not belong to us, who do not have any relation with us.
Sometimes we try to dominate our near and dear and show them the
right of being their actual relative and fight with them if they try to become
friendly with some outsider. Because we think that new person can take our
place in their eyes and we would not be privileged priority in future. So we
become quarrelsome with our Loved ones out of thinking of loosing emotional
security.
So, most of the time when we sit for meditation we usually have
to face the thoughts of our emotional security, sometimes we think that we are
being loved by our Loved one or sometimes we think that we are being ignored or
ditched by them. So, we have to go through some sort of internal conflict which
produces more thoughts.
In such types of mental dispositions, first we should feel the flow
of energy at our Sahastrara and then into our Central heart and ask ‘Mother’ to
let us feel more Secure because, “Shree Maa’, you are the mother of all the
mothers, you are the source of all types of Compassion and Love, so please
‘Maa’ let us feel your existence into our being.” So this process would let you
feel more secure and comfortable emotionally.
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